[NSFW] Power Dynamics (Domination, Submissiveness) in the Bedroom

[Lord Pixel]

I always thought Se liked rough and Si liked soft.

Like Se likes the battle of wills.

and Si likes the sensations of touch.

So one was raunchy and one was sensual.

Maybe my brain is broken but I do not understand the appeal of rough play, slapping and chocking etc etc. It just sounds/looks painful.

I'm Si valuing so make what you will with that.

[FreelancePoliceman]

I always thought Se liked rough and Si liked soft.

Like Se likes the battle of wills.

and Si likes the sensations of touch.

So one was raunchy and one was sensual.

Maybe my brain is broken but I do not understand the appeal of rough play, slapping and chocking etc etc. It just sounds/looks painful.

I'm Si valuing so make what you will with that.

It’s not about the pain itself but the psychic and emotional vulnerability and vividiry pain causes.

[Lord Pixel]

It’s not about the pain itself but the psychic and emotional vulnerability and vividiry pain causes.

Like I said, my brain is probably broken, because I don't derive any sort of physical, psychological, or emotional pleasure from pain.

Pain is, "Ow, stop doing that, gth off me."