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    I'm very versatile. =p

    A few years ago it was said that Betas are the type to embellish and talk a bigger game than what we actually like (like during phone sex we can get super nasty but then in real life we just want something more vanilla and nice), and in contrast, Deltas are more the people who go to Church every Sunday and not talk about sex at all in public but then behind closed doors enjoy something more realistically rough & sadistic. Idk, ime this kinda has some truth to it.

    'if its not rough its not fun' I kind of agree, tho im not that big on roughness, maybe more like intensity. Also play rudeness and non-PCness are huge turns on for me personally but ... let's not go into TMI ville. You all are like brothers and sisters to me here, its not really erotic. hehe. I've said it before tho, I think gay pornography needs to be way, way less PC and more silly like str8 porn. Some scenes in the 90s and early 2000s were really hot but nowadays its just too tame and boring to even be arousing. But yeah , I suppose I'm a typical pervy Beta and I need something with more oomph to be turned on compared to most people- but OTOH (and I think I'm gravely misunderstood with this one) I strongly know how to separate 'fantasy' from 'reality'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BandD View Post
    A few years ago it was said that Betas are the type to embellish and talk a bigger game than what we actually like (like during phone sex we can get super nasty but then in real life we just want something more vanilla and nice), and in contrast, Deltas are more the people who go to Church every Sunday and not talk about sex at all in public but then behind closed doors enjoy something more realistically rough & sadistic. Idk, ime this kinda has some truth to it.
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