Originally Posted by
asd
well, the “little” are, in my opinion, child-at-heart adults, so when they take on “the role of a child,” they are really just being themselves.
Well, when doing my research, I've come upon this post on Reddit and at one point, the author states:
Simple day-to-day activities work well in this dynamic as the sexual tension comes more from being in character than preforming specific sexual acts. So even something like going out food shopping together while in character can be incredibly hot. Unlike the other dynamics this one ( for me at least) can keep both of you aroused for for longer simply by both of you keeping up the role play. So a daddy watching a little tidy her room while she throws a tantrum and tries to distract him with kisses can be fun.
And as a Ne-ego, I can tell you there's a clear difference between being a child at heart and acting like an actual fucking child, like described above, shown in this meme or on these pictures: dressing similarly to a child and using a pacifier (and yet another one). Don't even get me started on adult women wetting their diapers and finding it hot that I've found on Tumblr once. Imo that's a therapy material, not a kink. Also, no one takes sexual gratification from just "being themselves".
Originally Posted by
asd
As for “being ripped of innocence” I personally don’t really see littles that way, because innocence is something that is a genuine, immutable quality of theirs.
You can be innocent without acting like a literal 5-year-old. My friends find me very innocent and adorable without me having to do these things. To me, the sort of "innocence" littles portray is simply fake, unnatural and disturbing.
Sorry if I sound rude or baffled, I sort of am. I've always been childlike myself and pretty innocent, and others view me this way as well, and those people sexualising, twisting and exaggerating childlike qualities for their sexual gratification give me creeps. So yeah, whoever's reading this, don't you even dare equating Ne-egos with "littles" or I will find you and I will hurt you
Originally Posted by
asd
i prefer a moderate/flexible “gentle” Dom as well
but it’s not necessarily bc they are LSE I think since not all LSEs are into that.
Curious, what's your type?