You say I've been as nasty as the ones who, for months, went on to: harass me, spread lies about me, insult me, wish my death, threaten of hurting me and the people in my real life... when my
replies were usually ignoring their insults and never went beyond calling them "delusional", "ass", or, godforgiveme, "shit". Fuck that. Do you really think this is a fair judgement of yours, a reality check?
If you want your complaint to be taken seriously maybe don't go off on the people you believe are harassing you?
If a gang of people assaults you, do you become guilty if you defend yourself?! Mad.
I've thanked the mods for closing the first split thread in May, a very nasty thread that they had allowed to open. I've never asked anything to anyone anymore, if not to remove a pvt picture that a member decided it was cool to make public.
3 times, other members, not me, requested that the insults of a a particular member were deleted. The vast majority of the insulting posts were made into split threads though, i.e. the moderators knew and allowed what was going on.
But back to the initial point: you say that, in my case, the nasty things were exchanged mutually, and that, in the other thread, you deleted the transphobic comments and others for they were mutually offending...confirming that you decided to moderate the comments about gender identity, rather than the plain bullying ones.
I was acknowledging this, not making a fuss about the lack of proper moderation of this forum, which I know very well is not all your fault (and that you're probably the most committed mod around), but if you care to go through the whole story again, at least don't tell me I can't complain. I can and should have done it before.