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    Abbie needs to reconsider her type.
    Calling her duals pushovers and seeing some EII behaviorial characteristics as issues is just enough proof.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Abbie needs to reconsider her type.

    This thread isn't about either of us.
    Here's my type-me thread if you want to press the issue.
    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...fter-Two-Years

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post

    This thread isn't about either of us.
    Here's my type-me thread if you want to press the issue.
    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...fter-Two-Years
    Criticizing the EIIs you met for not being productive and ambitious, also calling them pushovers... it's obvious you value SE.
    Also, I talk slowly, and I never met other EIIs that didn't, it's just our functional order, which makes us think deeply and carefully before spilling words.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Criticizing the EIIs you met for not being productive and ambitious, also calling them pushovers... it's obvious you value SE.
    I could see LIE as a type for Abbie to be honest. Her Se is not in the ego block either. Se valuing, but weak Se is the most hostile to signs of weakness in others because they lack the volition to compensate for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spermatozoa View Post
    I could see LIE as a type for Abbie to be honest. Her Se is not in the ego block either. Se valuing, but weak Se is the most hostile to signs of weakness in others because they lack the volition to compensate for it.
    I personally thought she was LSI, but what you say makes perfect sense.

    Also, calling people pushovers is the very last thing I would expect from a caregiver type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    e9's only seem to agree with you. In reality, they have their own agenda, which you will discover if you try to push them to do something they don't want to do.
    Oh yes, I've observed that in my SEI E9 brother. I could get him to do things more easily than anyone else in the family. But my requests were always reasonable. "Wash these pans so I can make dinner for you." rather than, "Throw away these wrappers you're collecting because it's a mess."


    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Also, calling people pushovers is the very last thing I would expect from a caregiver type.
    I stole his keyring decoration right in front of his face. I still have it.

    Also I think an LIE typing is particularly silly as I always score highest in Si on tests.
    B&D can vouch for my lack of Ni.

    Though I do see how Tozo would see me as a non-caregiver as I behave more coldly to people who I see as overly sexual. (Sexuality is a huge turn-off.)
    He seems to have mellowed out since I've been gone though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Oh yes, I've observed that in my SEI E9 brother. I could get him to do things more easily than anyone else in the family. But my requests were always reasonable. "Wash these pans so I can make dinner for you." rather than, "Throw away these wrappers you're collecting because it's a mess."



    I stole his keyring decoration right in front of his face. I still have it.

    Also I think an LIE typing is particularly silly as I always score highest in Si on tests.
    B&D can vouch for my lack of Ni.

    Though I do see how Tozo would see me as a non-caregiver as I behave more coldly to people who I see as overly sexual. (Sexuality is a huge turn-off.)
    He seems to have mellowed out since I've been gone though.
    BnD is ESI, so maybe a little but not really.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Abbie the Child View Post
    Oh yes, I've observed that in my SEI E9 brother. I could get him to do things more easily than anyone else in the family. But my requests were always reasonable. "Wash these pans so I can make dinner for you." rather than, "Throw away these wrappers you're collecting because it's a mess."



    I stole his keyring decoration right in front of his face. I still have it.

    Also I think an LIE typing is particularly silly as I always score highest in Si on tests.
    B&D can vouch for my lack of Ni.

    Though I do see how Tozo would see me as a non-caregiver as I behave more coldly to people who I see as overly sexual. (Sexuality is a huge turn-off.)
    He seems to have mellowed out since I've been gone though.
    I thought we did okay when we met each other. What do you think?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Abbie needs to reconsider her type.
    Calling her duals pushovers and seeing some EII behaviorial characteristics as issues is just enough proof.
    I have never seen anyone so at odds with Abbie, and that makes me feel that you are not an EII. Because EIIs just don't get that annoyed with what LSE has to say or how they say it.

    [This is not personal against you. I haven't read your other posts. I have read plenty of Abbie's and I feel quite sure she is LSE. And a LOT of people mistype themselves.]
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eliza Thomason View Post
    I have never seen anyone so at odds with Abbie, and that makes me feel that you are not an EII. Because EIIs just don't get that annoyed with what LSE has to say or how they say it.

    [This is not personal against you. I haven't read your other posts. I have read plenty of Abbie's and I feel quite sure she is LSE. And a LOT of people mistype themselves.]
    from his reaction he is most def EII. I just feel like he related too strongly to what she said, it had to strike a nerve or something. Probably felt punched in the Se PoLR, which is why I def think they are EII.

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