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    those sound more like IEI, @Director Abbie (except the first one, that one could be, but I also know an IEI like that).

    Anyway, op who is "perfect"? And who said that duality is about perfection?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ragdoll Lynx View Post
    those sound like IEI Abbie.
    Lol, because I listed all their worst traits? How about this list?

    -Easygoing, steady, and friendly
    -Sweet, loving, and horrified by violence
    -Imaginative and musically creative
    -Calm, understanding, witty, and thoughtful
    -Gentlemanly, kind, lighthearted, and studious
    -Idealizes family life

    Quote Originally Posted by Ragdoll Lynx View Post
    Anyway, op who is "perfect"? And who said that duality is about perfection?
    It might be a case of gamodualurano.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Lol, because I listed all their worst traits? How about this list?

    -Easygoing, steady, and friendly
    -Sweet, loving, and horrified by violence
    -Imaginative and musically creative
    -Calm, understanding, witty, and thoughtful
    -Gentlemanly, kind, lighthearted, and studious
    -Idealizes family life
    both lists seem like a IEI portrait to me.The thing with IEIs is that they look like EIIs at first...then just bam! They got your credit card (and they know your pin already). And if you dare to say something about it you just need to be prepared for the subsequent drama which will last at least 2 seasons. Its really offensive that you are so selfish after all the genuine niceness the IEI showed you.

    edit. https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...91#post1346691

    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    It might be a case of gamodualurano.

    lol
    Last edited by Faith; 07-30-2019 at 09:41 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    Lol, because I listed all their worst traits? How about this list?

    -Easygoing, steady, and friendly
    -Sweet, loving, and horrified by violence
    -Imaginative and musically creative
    -Calm, understanding, witty, and thoughtful
    -Gentlemanly, kind, lighthearted, and studious
    -Idealizes family life


    It might be a case of gamodualurano.
    Are these really EII-specific? They seem like "general issue nice guy" traits.
    Last edited by perpetuus; 07-30-2019 at 11:52 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by soulless ginger mutant View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    -Easygoing, steady, and friendly
    -Sweet, loving, and horrified by violence
    -Imaginative and musically creative
    -Calm, understanding, witty, and thoughtful
    -Gentlemanly, kind, lighthearted, and studious
    -Idealizes family life
    Are these really EII-specific? They seem like "general issue nice guy" traits.
    They might not be EII-specific. But neither are they IEI-specific. The issues with my duals are not type-related so much as human-related.
    Two of them are forumites. Two of them I haven't interacted with since I was in high school. One is a violinist at my church who is probably in his 50s, teaches at the middle school, and has been working on his PHd. One is a close friend.
    I would relate this "horrified by violence" to Se-PoLR, though I know it's not true of all Se-PoLRs. I would relate this imaginativity to Ne, as it's the kind that spews out ideas but sees few through. I would relate this understanding to Fi, as it's not a sympathetic understanding but a clarity in a subject I can be muddled in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    They might not be EII-specific. But neither are they IEI-specific. The issues with my duals are not type-related so much as human-related.
    Two of them are forumites. Two of them I haven't interacted with since I was in high school. One is a violinist at my church who is probably in his 50s, teaches at the middle school, and has been working on his PHd. One is a close friend.
    I would relate this "horrified by violence" to Se-PoLR, though I know it's not true of all Se-PoLRs. I would relate this imaginativity to Ne, as it's the kind that spews out ideas but sees few through. I would relate this understanding to Fi, as it's not a sympathetic understanding but a clarity in a subject I can be muddled in.
    Ye're a hard woman, Abbie, me girl. Tougher than most men. You need a man who understands you and will stand by you, not one who will compete with you.

    And keep in mind, EII's can be hard in their own way. They can be accommodating, but I wouldn't call them pushovers by any means. In fact, one of the most unmovable guys I ever met was EII.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
    I wouldn't call them pushovers by any means. In fact, one of the most unmovable guys I ever met was EII.
    The one I called a pushover is also E9.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
    The one I called a pushover is also E9.
    e9's only seem to agree with you. In reality, they have their own agenda, which you will discover if you try to push them to do something they don't want to do.
    Last edited by Adam Strange; 07-30-2019 at 06:23 PM.

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