There's no rule you have to live in the suburbs and fit some dad archetype.
I know. But the suburbs are safe. Safety is kind of a big illusion though. so its like this creepy dream of false safety in a sense. where ironically id feel safer if i was in the middle of a chaotic fight. as it does make you uptight and neurotic kind of. there was this funny bit in a tv show where one char was like "are we in Hell?" then the other person goes "No, just the suburbs" and the other person goes "What's the difference" lol. idk im saying it wrong. But it was something like that.