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    Default Do stackings (Donald) trump sociotypes?

    I'm Sx/Sp and I just met an IEI at work, likely So/Sx. I find
    her really compatible. Do you believe it can work out?

    Also, to those who say no... please go to hell

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    Any two people can "work out"; the only questions are how well they will work out and how much compromising they have to do and how many benefits they derive from the relationship.

    If you indeed have the stackings correct, then there have been people who assert that you are best matched with a person whose second instinct is your first instinct. This is good for you, less so for her.

    There are also people who say that you should not match with someone whose third, ignoring instinct is your first, seeking instinct. Again, this is worse for her than it is for you.

    However, there are many more considerations in relationships than sociotype and instincts. She's going to want to know what you bring to the relationship, and hopefully, whatever it is will be something that she values.

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    @OP see you in hell.

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    Here are some links to what some others think about EII-IEI relationships:

    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...ical-Relations

    https://www.the16types.info/vbulleti...INFj-and-INFp)
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    I think it totally can. If you feel compatible, the feeling is a better indicator than your knowledge of personality typology, which can fuck ppl up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    I'm Sx/Sp and I just met an IEI at work, likely So/Sx. I find
    her really compatible. Do you believe it can work out?

    Also, to those who say no... please go to hell
    I don't know how long you've been studying Socionics, but if it's been only a few months, then your types are probably wrong. Don't take this personally, but it takes *years* (maybe even a decade) to get passably good at typing.

    If you're as compatible as you say, it's more likely that you're in the same or adjacent quadras. The only times I've seen quasi-identical partners together was so they can feel each other up—the relationship doesn't usually last more than a week or two.

    This is just IMO. Do whatever you want and good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    I'm Sx/Sp and I just met an IEI at work, likely So/Sx. I find
    her really compatible. Do you believe it can work out?

    Also, to those who say no... please go to hell
    so do you want an honest answer or just for people to say yes. also do you think youre retarded?

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    marep's the best typer around and can distinguish fe and se and soros is a ne anyway and you're all jello see u in heaven marep god bless ya

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    It's just me or some people here don't understand humour?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    also do you think youre retarded?
    If I was I would have already met you at the mental institution... so no

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    It's just me or some people here don't understand humour?
    donald trump ah ah ah u killed me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    If I was I would have already met you at the mental institution... so no
    You can be retarded and not institutionalized, work on your logic pal

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    I'm Sx/Sp and I just met an IEI at work, likely So/Sx. I find
    her really compatible. Do you believe it can work out?

    Also, to those who say no... please go to hell
    Do not inhale, for your destiny lies elsewhere my friend.

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    Geez guys, why are you so mean... have you never been in love?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    marep's the best typer around and can distinguish fe and se and soros is a ne anyway and you're all jello see u in heaven marep god bless ya
    Did you enter my profile and read my past posts?
    Also, are you trying to convince the others I'm bad at typing so that they find me being EII dubious (it's quite clear you don't want me in your group)?
    Is this really what your game is?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Geez guys, why are you so mean... have you never been in love?
    I have been in love, more than once, and once it was with an IEI. I urge you to reconsider this relationship for your own sake. The laws of psychological gravity certainly advise against its success, and without any other information, I can foresee you being manipulated and hurt. You have good intentions, so go for someone who is likely to reciprocate them. There is a certain tragedy in always longing for what is beyond reach, reveling in the drama of a love that would be perfect if it were not for that one fatal flaw, which conveniently prevents you from having to sacrifice much outside your fantasy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spermatozoa View Post
    The laws of psychological gravity certainly advise against its success, and without any other information, I can foresee you being manipulated and hurt.
    Well, that seems to be going too far... If they want to manipulate you and hurt you, that has more to do with their psychological health and maturity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Did you enter my profile and read my past posts?
    Also, are you trying to convince the others I'm bad at typing so that they find me being EII dubious (it's quite clear you don't want me in your group)?
    Is this really what your game is?
    no,
    no (?),
    no.

    is it just me or someone here doesnt understand humor?

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    alright, answering your question seriously, yes, I believe any relationship can work out if you people behave properly, respect each others, don't advance impossible expectations, and don't live thinking the other gotta fulfill some russian socionics theory. it's easier said than done: remove all your brainwashing and then maybe it can work out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    Did you enter my profile and read my past posts?
    Also, are you trying to convince the others I'm bad at typing so that they find me being EII dubious (it's quite clear you don't want me in your group)?
    Is this really what your game is?
    She's just petty, insecure and passive aggressive. She's referring to this situation here. You exposed the underlying incompetence that informs most of her typings and opinions--of which she futilely tries to defend against like a bucking antelope caught within the grip of ravenous lioness--which inadvertently resulted in her receiving a scalp dragging, and she is obviously still tight af and being a bitter Betty about it. You're not the one with the actual problem here, it's her. Fret not.

    P.S. And in many of her posts, like the one above, she condescendingly dismisses Socionics most probably because she fails to possess a true grasp of the nuances, which she resents, as evidenced in her saltiness about you pointing out a likely mistyping on her part. She just doesn't get it and instead of doubling down, learning, and improving, she wants to throw it all away. Heh.

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    and I guess you liking false antagonistic shit is a sign you're the second best typer around... aha

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    and I guess you liking false antagonistic shit is a sign you're the second best typer around... aha
    What a dolt. lol Don't blame the system and those who actually understand the system for your own bungling misdiagnoses of many of those humanitarian disasters you call relationships. You change underwear less frequently than you do your type, and so of course you're bound to be confused concerning accurate intertype relations--this again just speaks to your overall inadequacy. DUH. But again, blame yourself first and foremost; the system is certainly imperfect, but you are even more so.

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    and you actually understand the system, as if you understand anything at all, lol, good one clap clap. shut the fuck up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    and you actually understand the system, as if you understand anything at all, lol, good one clap clap. shut the fuck up.
    <3

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    is that your dick?

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    If you really have typed correctly and you are EII & IEI then that's quasi-identity and it is not compatible. You said you've just met her so saying that she feels compatible is maybe a little too soon.

    But you can't let Socionics control every step you take. Just go for it if you feel like it. Socionics gives us information that goes far beyond what's normal or even healthy to know, even though it is very accurate. Everybody needs to try things and live to the full. And by trying things and failing you also learn Socionics.
    A true sense-perception certainly exists, but it always looks as though objects were not so much forcing their way into the subject in their own right as that the subject were seeing things quite differently, or saw quite other things than the rest of mankind. As a matter of fact, the subject perceives the same things as everybody else, only, he never stops at the purely objective effect, but concerns himself with the subjective perception released by the objective stimulus.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    is that your dick?
    Nah, it's that condemned, foundation-less demolition site you call a cunt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alonzo View Post
    Nah, it's that condemned, foundation-less demolition site you call a cunt.
    lol sorry, by the amount of dickheaded posts you type, I confused your Fe display of emotions for your dick : )

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    lol sorry, by the amount of dickheaded posts you type, I confused your Fe display of emotions for your dick : )
    Cute because I was mimicking your bogus, phony, sham, disingenuous "<3 (: (;" "Fe display of emotions." It's all good, sweetheart--I know that, in actuality, you're a bitter, sour, washed up cunt rag desperately trying to impart feigned "happiness" to others though you're always seconds away from a plugged in curling iron inside a filled up bathtub. I see you.

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    yep, funny how you insult people for things you do yourself... I was pointing that out, in case your logic was too obfuscated by <3 to realize.

    but cute, "I see you" would be the socionics motto of Ni(Fe) types.

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    I must say, I do find a Gamma's mating rituals rather amusing to watch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    yep, funny how you insult people for things you do yourself... I was pointing that out, in case your logic was too obfuscated by <3 to realize.
    First off, let's speak more accurately, dodo. It's too blanket a statement to say that I "insult people" for things I do myself. I insult you, in particular, for multiple reasons (that I don't partake in) previously covered. One of them is your irritating usage of "perky" demonstrative Fe, which I see as fake and overblown. You critique my usage of demonic, role Fe which you mis-attribute (unsurprisingly, seeing as you are incompetent) to my being a Fe lead--but you never see it expressed beyond "anger," which by no means exclusively defines a lead Fe user. You may confuse others and yourself, but you'll never confuse me because I actually understand the many Jungian based theories that underscore Socionics and how they interconnect.

    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    but cute, "I see you" would be the socionics motto of Ni(Fe) types.
    Helen Keller and Stevie Wonder even "see" you, ho. You are not that complicated to anyone capable of reading, applying knowledge and spotting patterns, none of which involve Fe > you are an unhealthy IEE > delusionally positive, insincere, hyper sensitive, with a neurotic need to affirm and be affirmed--the downside of being hypersensitive to how others are treated is that you are just as hypersensitive to how you are treated, which is why you may find personal insult where there was none.

    You're attached to Marep like a canker sore that just won't quit all because he critiqued your typing of someone and multiple others agreed. PERIOD. And when he called you out, you pussy popped, back peddled and feigned "humor," ever trying to mitigate the degree to which you will be disliked. lol Pathetic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    lol sorry, by the amount of dickheaded posts you type, I confused your Fe display of emotions for your dick : )
    So much Se in this post, I don't even...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marep View Post
    So much Se in this post, I don't even...
    where exactly?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alonzo View Post
    First off, let's speak more accurately, dodo. It's too blanket a statement to say that I "insult people" for things I do myself. I insult you, in particular, for multiple reasons (that I don't partake in) previously covered. One of them is your irritating usage of "perky" demonstrative Fe, which I see as fake and overblown. You critique my usage of demonic, role Fe which you mis-attribute (unsurprisingly, seeing as you are incompetent) to my being a Fe lead--but you never see it expressed beyond "anger," which by no means exclusively defines a lead Fe user. You may confuse others and yourself, but you'll never confuse me because I actually understand the many Jungian based theories that underscore Socionics and how they interconnect.



    Helen Keller and Stevie Wonder even "see" you, ho. You are not that complicated to anyone capable of reading, applying knowledge and spotting patterns, none of which involve Fe > you are an unhealthy IEE > delusionally positive, insincere, hyper sensitive, with a neurotic need to affirm and be affirmed--the downside of being hypersensitive to how others are treated is that you are just as hypersensitive to how you are treated, which is why you may find personal insult where there was none.

    You're attached to Marep like a canker sore that just won't quit all because he critiqued your typing of someone and multiple others agreed. PERIOD. And when he called you out, you pussy popped, back peddled and feigned "humor," ever trying to mitigate the degree to which you will be disliked. lol Pathetic.
    usual amount of bragging and delusional projections, next.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    usual amount of bragging and delusional projections, next.
    All Marep did was (benignly) disagree with you in another thread and yet you've gone out of your way to make unnecessary, passive aggressive digs at him in multiple other threads. And yet you accuse me of attacking anyone who "contradicts" me. lol What happened to you being a defender of the people? So it's perfectly fine to harass someone as long as you drape it in faux, badly executed "humor?" Such a hypocritical piece of shit you are.

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    passive aggressive? in multiple other threads? where's your Te objectivity gone?

    what Marep did was pointing out how my typings were wrong, based on false premises. what you did was backing Marep up wtv nonsense was said, while professing the superiority of a theory that you readily ignore just to attack me, like you're doing here.

    where's your Te objectivity gone, again? oh right, all nonsense is allowed because you don't like me ; )

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    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    passive aggressive? in multiple other threads? where's your Te objectivity gone?
    It's so easy to make you look stupid that it stopped being fun long ago. At this point, I just consider it a civic duty >

    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    marep's the best typer around and can distinguish fe and se and soros is a ne anyway and you're all jello see u in heaven marep god bless ya
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    donald trump ah ah ah u killed me
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    how do u manage to watch 53 minutes of this stuff
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    marep knows
    You showed up to two of his threads (within minutes of each other) to shitpost and in another, you posted right under him with some condescending claptrap, all without a directly antagonistic confrontation. Those are the objective FACTS. So, yes, you are a passive aggressive troll.

    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    what Marep did was pointing out how my typings were wrong, based on false premises. what you did was backing Marep up wtv nonsense was said, while professing the superiority of a theory that you readily ignore just to attack me, like you're doing here.
    There was no false premise, you dullard plebeian. Two posters with 3-4D Te and Ti pointed that out to you several times in the "Is this Fe valuing" thread that first got your panties all bunched up. You are no authority whatsoever at spotting false premises, only making them.

    Quote Originally Posted by ooo View Post
    where's your Te objectivity gone, again? oh right, all nonsense is allowed because you don't like me ; )
    In the sense that subconscious ethics fuels conscious logic, then yes, not liking you drives me to logically assess and evaluate how objectively useless you are.

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    IV stacks > sociotype IRs. Even duals w/ incompatible stacks may as well be occupying different universes.

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