I Need Help! Benefactor Landlord
Moving in a few days and my landlord is my benefactor.
His type is confirmed LSI.
I'm afraid he won't take my concerns seriously regarding upkeep of my rental and other issues that may come up.
Benefactor does not listen to the concerns of beneficiary...
Every time I've bought a car from an LSI, I've run into issues and been tricked and scammed.
Strategies I'm thinking of utilizing (How ILI of me)
-Bringing my SEE dual w me to look at the apartment
-Bringing my EIE (his dual) friend with me
-Tapping into my inner actor and use emotional coercion to get things I need done done
What will make him listen to me?!
I don't understand; Have you already tried talking to your landlord or is this speculation? When in doubt bringt your EIE. Besides, whoever sold you a car and your landlord are unrelated issues.
a two horned unicorn renegade
Socionics is a spook
I don't know about how to make a landlord (or benefactor) listen but the presence of a 3rd party should help, I think
Leave the SEE, bring the EIE.
Also, get things in writing. LSI's are sticklers for legal details. Document everything. And finally, investigate the landlord's history with tenants for complaints. You might find this at the BBB, or at your city's rental housing licensing department. You can also check with the local police to see if the landlord has had anyone evicted for any reason. Like, for playing loud music after 8PM or finding weed in their room on an unannounced sweep of the apt. Yes, it is illegal to go into a tenant's place without notice, but if they find drugs and evict you and keep your security deposit, you are going to have bigger problems than them overstepping their legal rights, and who needs the hassle?
What's the purpose of SEI?
LSI seems to be the archetypal landlord, many landlords are of this type.
Check out the film "The Tenant" by Roman Polanski for some great LSI landlord character. (And IEI-LSI dynamics)
My current landlord is my conflictor, so maybe I should also be worried.
A true sense-perception certainly exists, but it always looks as though objects were not so much forcing their way into the subject in their own right as that the subject were seeing things quite differently, or saw quite other things than the rest of mankind. As a matter of fact, the subject perceives the same things as everybody else, only, he never stops at the purely objective effect, but concerns himself with the subjective perception released by the objective stimulus.
(Jung on Si)
Lol if you considered bringing his supervisee over his dual then u will need the help
a two horned unicorn renegade
Many ILIs live like hoarders often with no easily discernable appearance of order. If you live a relatively ordered existence (keep things neat) then LSIs will not tend to think that you are the direct cause of most of the problems. A normal, well-adjusted LSI will usually attend to his responsibilities very promptly, but will resent and stubbornly resist having to attend to what he sees as your responsibilities. Now, you can get nightmare landlords of every type because unreasonableness is not type related......