ahh, my bad, I wasn't implying anything bad about what you said. I just wanted to relay an experience between me and an SLE and I thought it related to what you said. And think it's cool to see these connections, so maybe I was a little too zealous in responding. Really just trying to give an example of how an SLE could view me that way and how it related to my experience...
damn, maybe it's time I take a break from the forum.