IEI men going for IEI women

[ashlesha]

Lol I think some men are like this tbh, even an ESI man i have distantly known to where I actually did the pursuing (imagine that lol) and it was a terrible idea that also ended poorly, it's like a bad omen if i end up pursuing a man at least that's how i've come to view it haha. But I can see it being the case with IEI tho. I wanted to comment as it reminded me of something and i wondered if it's a Se-Ni ethical introvert's game (?)

I dunno, if I'm an Se/Ni ethical introvert it's not my game. Im a lot more comfortable being in charge during the whole seduction process cuz I wanna know it's my choice and i wanna have as much control as i can over the pace. Ive been advised that's its smarter for women to sit back and let them come forth but i just can't bring myself to do it.

Maybe some men are like that though and it's not an iei thing per se. I don't wanna assume all iei men are like that cuz it feels like mentally denying their autonomy cuz of my biases.

[Delilah]

... Ive been advised that's its smarter for women to sit back and let them come forth but i just can't bring myself to do it.

Maybe some men are like that though and it's not an iei thing per se. I don't wanna assume all iei men are like that cuz it feels like mentally denying their autonomy cuz of my biases.

haha just ime you can't win whether you take initiative or let the other party do it you just can't win lol, i'm not even bothered by these things anymore nor do i have headspace for them.

Perhaps it's not Type related then, i'll think about it, thanks!