@Topaz
You're right. Possibly my working so hard to be uber-strong and eliminate all weakness has become my new weakness! Hehe. I should let people help me more. Thank you!


@Smilingeyes
Thank you. You answered my question and then even added some more wisdom on top of it! You're really on top of this stuff, huh?

I like your way of describing it here: "Umm, relationships aren't built on independence. The practical day to day interplay of the relationship isn't nearly as needy as I described it, but it's a case of the trust and strong bond in the relation allowing independent activities rather than the bond being based on this."

I can see now how the ESTj would offer valuable support and skills to the INFj. It's just not something I'm used to.


@Dioklecian
What do you mean about duality being an ENTp concept?