Benefit Relations
I don't get how benefit relations manifest or work. I have little experience with ESI and often we don't engage with each other (irl I've never felt too much like doing it and they just do it when we have "someone" in common which to me is not enough reason to start a relationship and I feel them kind edgy at times so I usually pass because I kinda mistrust them ). With LII, I have one good friend that I like because she's Logical and Ne and I see a lot of positive qualities in her (which is probably common in most LIIs probably). I have never felt like receiving some "benefit" from benefactor or providing benefit to beneficiary. I also read some description which described something "similar" to supervision where benefactor kinda criticize beneficiary or worst, when both start criticizing to each other (or smth like that). Anyway I don't get it.
Feel free to discuss about it or share your experiences.