Socionics isn’t real

[Beautiful sky]

@Beautiful sky, I think @Number 9 large makes a positive contribution to the forum. He didn't seek you out to tell you how to behave. You took it upon yourself to criticize his actions.

One thing that Socionics tells us is that other people have different values that we do. Judging them privately is fine, but trying to censor them is not, as long as they are following the rules of the forum.

If you can't tolerate someone's views, then use the Ignore function. That's what it is for.

My LSE mother once told me that my rights stop where the other person's nose begins. It was about the best advice she gave me.

I don’t understand how him calling people a “B” is okay. It’s not even a joke

[Number 9 large]

I don’t understand how him calling people a “B” is okay. It’s not even a joke

its also not okay to get 7 warnings maritsa maybe u should look into that some more

[Adam Strange]

I don’t understand how him calling people a “B” is okay. It’s not even a joke

You don't have to understand it. You just have to respect people's viewpoints. Freedom of speech means freedom to express conflicting viewpoints.

One important thing I'd like to point out, and this affects child-rearing and I know, because I did it, is that there is a huge difference between criticizing a person's actions and criticizing the person. Asking "What is wrong with you" is criticizing the person, not the actions.

It is the difference between saying "I wish you could do a better job at cleaning your room" and saying "You are a slob." One is negotiable, the other is not.

[Beautiful sky]

You don't have to understand it. You just have to respect people's viewpoints. Freedom of speech means freedom to express conflicting viewpoints.

One important thing I'd like to point out, and this affects child-rearing and I know, because I did it, is that there is a huge difference between criticizing a person's actions and criticizing the person. Asking "What is wrong with you" is criticizing the person, not the actions.

It is the difference between saying "I wish you could do a better job at cleaning your room" and saying "You are a slob." One is negotiable, the other is not.

I criticized him because it’s not the first time that he’s rude without any reason or cause to promp the rude behavior