Everybody is kind of gross, but straight people are more gross. And white people. And Cis people. At least those who don't get it.
I am really trying to be as generous as you are, especially living in a conservative rural area. I don't blame people for
attitudes that they have because they were never challenged. But I have spent four years having conversations and trying to explain and really, the pervasive lack of basic decency and empathy is so frustrating. How is it not obvious that people who are different don't choose to be? How dense and self-absorbed can you be?
I really need to get out of here...