That's my mom and husband. Whatever the case it it's always great to have an EII in the middle.

My husband overvalues her and thinks she can naturally get things done that he can't. My mother is the critic so she criticizes his Si (need to relax, need to take care of things later, need to not have things clean or organized and put away now). They joke around and such but my mother is "observe manners and don't kiss hug cuddle in public - that's for the bedroom." Lots of taboos. My husband is the opposite to that. She notices stuff about him and she criticizes or finds things to criticize about. Gamma quadrant lol.

What seems like "it takes only a few minutes to do that" to my mom, the same task is "not that important to do now - let's do that later" to my husband.