Typical conversation between my sister and I. I am in the blue
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
My sister has a way of infecting others around her with her emotions and being the center of attention because she is and can be so emotionally expressive. At the Thanksgiving party she went into a cry expression and called upon one person at a time to tell them how much she loved them all the while crying and sobbing. Of course I am the total opposite of this as I’m very calm but I am affectionate so every so often I would hug her and encourage her not to have too much negativity. She did take a center role as I ran around and fed the kids and looked after the cleaning.
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
So when ESE throws a fit someone needs to tell her that this makes no sense and offer an alternative way of dealing about it and give a reason in very concentrated manner and maybe ask clarifying questions. LII's handle this much better than LSI's.
Fe base is highly hysterical but ESE's need to listen clarifying words more than a direct blow of LSI.
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