I'm dying to learn about this as well. Just yesterday I was at my family doctor's practice and I swear the assistant was SLI, and I wonder why she wasn't mesmerized by my mere presence. Sunday in the supermarket I had a very nice flirt with an ILE-woman somewhere in her late fifties, that went so far as her sending her man on an errand somewhere else in the store so we could freely throw some more smiles at each other. Why does this never happen to me with SLI women?