Double-checked this and you're right. I must have just thought that through conversations with people on the forums here. But it is true that xSIs (and actually all Se egos in general at times) can seem pseudo victim-like and have been described as such in the literature too.
For example here in the LSI female description by Beskova:
She knows how to be charming, and also how to seem tender, brittle, and defenseless, if she decides that this is something necessary for the time.http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...STj-by-BeskovaAt first meeting, you are guaranteed to see a charming smile and coquettish gaze.