Stackings and Misconceptions

[Samson]

That's not what I said. "They downplay sex." I said they prefer subtle ways of communicating that, instead of the more blatant and in your face descriptions.

But communicate they do - and putting the emphasis on friendships instead is taking away the vital aspect of this instinct

[VenusRose]

But communicate they do - and putting the emphasis on friendships instead is taking away the vital aspect of this instinct

Ok I was just clearing up what looked like a misunderstanding.

DA's instinct stacking is upto her, I don't know her well enough yet to comment.

And I don't think "friendships" are necessarily "not SX first either" as I provided the example with my friend.

But communicate they do

Indeed, that is exactly what I think is missed by people online at least, when they suppose that anybody who isn't talking about SX perhaps in this way, as an example...must not be talking about SX. It's a language thing, it's in the body language, the eyes, I don't know how to describe it. It's sexual, but it's not going to be in your face sexual.

So to reiterate, I never said:
1) They downplay sex.
nor
2) Sex is dirty thing and things should be cleansed of it, lol.

I would appreciate you not twisting things and making it look like something it is not, that is all.