Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
I found a site that listed stackings by enneagram type and looked through the 1 descriptions. I didn't really fit any of them, but I tried to order them from fits-most to fits-least.
so/sx
sp/so
sp/sx
sx/sp
so/sp
sx/so
Also, those descriptions relate sx to close people, not to anything sexual, and I reaffirm that seeing sx as necessarily sexual is a misconception.
And the 1 descriptions made it clear that sx and 1 don't blend well, and implied that an sx 1 would be unstable. But I'm not unstable. I'm just weird.


I can relate to that. Not in such thoughts, but a similar impression.


The attachment styles don't work for me. It seems there's too much fluctuation.




So do you have a guess as to my stacking? At this point I've tried on each one and am starting to get the impression that stackings aren't real.
I'm pretty sure that stackings are real. I looked up the most likely instinct stacks for ESTj's, and got this: https://thoughtcatalog.com/heidi-pri...enneagram-2/5/

It seems the most common for ESTj's are sp/sx, sx/so, and so/sx.