I found a site that listed stackings by enneagram type and looked through the 1 descriptions. I didn't really fit any of them, but I tried to order them from fits-most to fits-least.
so/sx
sp/so
sp/sx
sx/sp
so/sp
sx/so
Also, those descriptions relate sx to close people, not to anything sexual, and I reaffirm that seeing sx as necessarily sexual is a misconception.
And the 1 descriptions made it clear that sx and 1 don't blend well, and implied that an sx 1 would be unstable. But I'm not unstable. I'm just weird.
I can relate to that. Not in such thoughts, but a similar impression.
The attachment styles don't work for me. It seems there's too much fluctuation.
So do you have a guess as to my stacking? At this point I've tried on each one and am starting to get the impression that stackings aren't real.