“We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.” Randy Pausch
Ne-IEE
6w7 sp/sx
6w7-9w1-4w5
It's more like the conflict of meaning. People need meaning but meaning is inherently restrictive because it limits possible perspectives. So it's a catch-22 that makes people anxious.
So you have a few choices:
1) Deny the meaning exists
2) Accept the meaning as-is
3) Transform the meaning through an act of will
#3 is the resolution in many cases