Alpha NTs & Sexual Impulse (ENTp,INTj sexuality)

[vesstheastralsilky]

I like lingerie; I need something to draw in my attention. I am an introvert of course. Body type is probably based on a few factors. First, is how many girls are knocking down my door? A guy gets cocky when there are plenty of women available. Secondly, erotic taste in body types seems to change with me. I like different looking women now than in the past. When I was younger, I like extremely thin women. I mostly had relationships with yoga instructor types. I have acquired a taste for some variations on that. I was normally repulsed by large breasts. I liked thin, athletic, ballet/yoga/soccer playing types. I have loosened up and have no deep preferences.

I do not like any music, both in general and for mood setting. Music makes me concentrate better, I concentrate too much.

Oh thank you and very important post. So apparently all is not lost when thin. Now I'm wondering how far to take my diet. I must do it at least until I'm comfortable in my body again. I don't like being a size 10 even if my breasts are now huge. An LSE I know once said breasts isn't necessarily about size but how nice they are. My response was, "Oh yeah, and you know how so-&-so's have all those odd corners ..." and everyone around started laughing.

[Saberstorm]

Oh thank you and very important post. So apparently all is not lost when thin. Now I'm wondering how far to take my diet. I must do it at least until I'm comfortable in my body again. I don't like being a size 10 even if my breasts are now huge. An LSE I know once said breasts isn't necessarily about size but how nice they are. My response was, "Oh yeah, and you know how so-&-so's have all those odd corners ..." and everyone around started laughing.

I cannot tell if you are being sarcastic. What is your native language?

[vesstheastralsilky]

I cannot tell if you are being sarcastic. What is your native language?

I'm not being sarcastic. I am sincere. My native language is English and I've only ever also studied German. I have read a ton in my life so my vocabulary may not seem typical. I also have a goofy imagination.

Oh yeah in that joke at the time it was sarcasm.

[sbbds]

I am like that too.

I will certainly take you up on your offer. Thanks soooooo much. <3

Lol those are simply his impressions of me. I’m not sure how true they are actually. Some of it could be him idealizing me.

Oh thank you and very important post. So apparently all is not lost when thin. Now I'm wondering how far to take my diet. I must do it at least until I'm comfortable in my body again. I don't like being a size 10 even if my breasts are now huge. An LSE I know once said breasts isn't necessarily about size but how nice they are. My response was, "Oh yeah, and you know how so-&-so's have all those odd corners ..." and everyone around started laughing.

Yeah I’ve known alpha NTs who where into all sorts of body types. IME the guys who I’ve liked the most, are also the ones who have liked me the most just in my natural everyday healthy state. In other words I would avoid unnaturally intensive diets or anything that’s counterintuitive to you feeling your best. Take it one day at a time.