I'm wondering about silence and sound in relation to Si and Se. For example I know a few Se valuers who like white noise like radio/tv to sleep and Si valuers needing silence for sleep. Also I know Se valuers who have great difficulty sitting with someone in silence and prefer or insist on filling the space with sound, even if they are saying nothing of any use. This bothers Si valuers, wheres Si valuers often need quiet time to process things, and when they are stressed they try to find quiet. It seems like a long time without silence is straining for one whereas a long time with silence is straining for the other. Is it about Se valuers taking responsibility for the aural 'space' or making sure someone is doing that, so that they can relax? How to reconcile two such viscerally conflicting values in the one space?