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mrrrmaid I relate to you on feeling really "extreme." The only part I sort of don't relate to is the politics thing. I tend to not think about things like that. If something is too complex I avoid thinking about it. Especially if there are multiple sides to the argument, having me pick sides is difficult. I typically can empathize with all people. Not saying I can't recognize bad politics, I definitely can.
You definitely give off more irrational vibes than rational ones, bases on the video I saw. I definitely think SEI fits, but so could IEI. If you feel like you "bleed" Fe, you could just consider SEI Fe? I think it's likely.
As for the caregiver/victim thing, I change my mind, and say don't put too much stress on that. From what I've seen people tend to have a secondary romantic style that they can relate to. For me, if it's not caregiver, the next best fit would be victim and not aggressor, despite not having weak Se...
But anyway, here's my two cents, hopefully it helps.