EIIs-INFjs and falling into relations with the wrong people

[Delilah]

It's not typical for EIIs to allow themselves to be actually bossed around unless they're insecure or physically threatened - or have a plan. Most Ijs are largely predictable and in that sense they're reliable and one can rely on the fact that most Ijs have lots of self-interest so being bossed around usually leads to an advantage......

a.k.a. I/O

I don't really see all Ixxjs as the same, but in the case of EII being bossed around by ESE seemed exactly so from my outsider's perspective though likely EII didn't think of it as such herself for a while. But the EII years later did complain to me about her relation to ESE so i do make a point based on both personal observation and perspective and fact.