My parents tried to mitigate conflict for 40 years with no success. It's very difficult to do so and I am failing to do it with ESIs because of many reasons. For example, my mother is feeling type and she struggles with logical actions to mitigate conflict and gets emotional too much when she's supposed to calm down and ignore. My father on the other hand is butthurt every time and needs to argue even he knows this will bring problems (high Se). As with me and ESIs, after some time it always ends up in massive, non-stoppable conflict mainly because ESI is too emotional and listens more to emotions and feelings then to logical thinking. At some point, there is no way to mitigate anything, the longer it lasts the worse it is and it doesn't get better.

With duals it is entirely different. Over time it gets better. There might be some issues at the beginning but not no-goers.