I'm not a professional, but indeed this is most characteristic of the Soft Seasons. It can be difficult deciding when you're very neutral, have you tried testing this tie breaker method? Red is the more reactive color of all (it took me forever to find my correct red too) so try these colors:
One article that help me decide what Winter was better before getting professionally draped was this Seasonal Deal Breakers:
https://www.truth-is-beauty.com/blog...-deal-breakers