Typing errors ahead. I'm not claiming to be 100% correct about anything in this. I can only judge my own experiences with LIEs and on a lesser level with ILIs.
Most of the above looks like LIE. However the red parts are (in my experience) mostly atypic. Especially the property-stuff.
Good, that means LSE and Ep are out. @
Number 9 large, you posted a story once where you had a conflict with your female ESE manager(?). I remember that you described how you prepared any action beforehand in your mind. Does the above reflect your thinking style? I ask that because I think that ILI is a real option here.
Excluding LSI. LII, too. But mainly because of the "looses his temper" - part.
That does not give us much info. I should have thought of a better question. Honestly, I don't know how ILIs deal with that. I don't know if they tlalk about future plans readily of only with close ones or when they're in good mood. As far as I remeber LIEs do ... It sounds like a cooking recipe for a perfect life with all necessary steps to achive a certain (but for the listener kinda vague) vision/ dream. And only in one-on-one convos or with a small group of close people ime.
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Attis as an ILI, do you do that, too?
Can't say much about the above (But now that I think about it...despite all the stereotypes of LIEs wearing official dress and such I don't see them wearing it. Only when they absolutely must. The official LIE uniform is this:
https://artofstyle.club/wp-content/u...t-of-style.jpg but I don't know about the shoes...)
aww look. Someone has a heart. But does not say much about type except for maybe Fi-HA or Fi-DS. And only in our current context.
I find this very odd for an Ip but perfectly normal for an EJ. (Although *cough* some stupid EJs *cough* always change their mind like evrytime just for the sake of it. /rant over)
(Some )ILIs are gossipers. I'm calling it.
Ok here is what I think. Adam thinks he's ILI and I respect that.I think he's LIE and If he can't see himself or other LIE in your descriptions then you should definitely take his opinion into account. About the other's opinions: I'm sorry. I don't have much time to read everything here. You're opinion matters too of course. Sadly I'm horribly biased.
Personally I'm leaning towards LIE and for that you should try to catch his HA. With LIEs in their 20s it's like they're trying to be cool and manly and they're not weaklings or whimps (lol) at all but can try too hard to look Se and then it looks off.
(Example: One said to me "I didn't now that I look that cool when I'm driving my car." He isn't arrogant. On the contrary he does not know that he's pretty and looked really sad when I didn't react to it.)
As they become older it's a lot harder to spot imo or I don't have enough subjects to stalk.
Space (in a room). LIEs like space. It does not matter if they are just coworkers on a lower hierarchy level or if they are the ones who own the business, they take up space like they own all of this (like feet on the table).
And the definite guide for you as ESI to spot if the guy is LIE:
The six levels of
this-LIE-kinda-likes-you
Level 1: treats you like everybody.
Level 2: After a while (does not matter how long and you have to be alone) he starts talking because he can't stand silence. It can start like "Tell me what you did last weekend" or "what's your hobbies" or " You probably think that I know nothing because I can't help you with anything"(<- in my case. We worked on different projects. So I asked everyone but him. So I guess he could not show that he too is competent) You make him laugh/ start to know each other better. It's not awkward anymore.
Level 3: Poking. You know toodlers who test their limits, talk back and do things that are forbidden? Yeah that kind of stuff happens in level 3.
Level 4: Fucking dick jokes.
Level 5: You show him his place.
Level 6: congrats you're now kinda good pals
If that didn't happen (and you said that you were close so if he's LIE that should've happened) then he's probably ILI.