Quote Originally Posted by Herzy View Post
I'm a SLE chick currently dating an IEI guy. We don't have any of the issues you all mentioned above. Like, I'm definitely a chick and he is definitely a dude. I don't get why so many people imply that SLE chicks are butch and IEI guys are pansies. We don't have to worry about communicating authentically, because it happens naturally. I don't have to moderate myself.
What I said also had some advice for more unhealthy variations, which is totally possible.