How would an INFp (male) and ESTp (female) relationship work?

[Olimpia]

Doesn't happen irl – in the vast majority of cases.

Most SLE women look for an "equal", and they see that rather in a fellow Beta ST than an IEI; a big reason for this is the gender roles. SLE women tend to feel not as "feminine" generally, so they are going to look for a man who is at least just as "masculine" and strong as them, or more. And that is usually a fellow Beta ST. Besides that, SLE women are unlikely going to meet an IEI male, because of different lifestyles and the fact IEI men are not as common as other types (in my estimation).

Having said all that, if a female SLE and male IEI actually fall in love and get together, the usual duality dynamic for those two types should ensue, with certain gender roles-related alterations; like the SLE female not being as aggressively pursuing the IEI as the men stereotypically do, and the IEI man not being as clearly sexually submissive (though they might be).

[betterthandead]

I like your generalizations and talking like you think you understand woman, like placing them in a box and presuming they all behave the same way especially ESTP women. So basically people tend to like those with similar personalities, isn't that enlightening? It gets a little boring and limiting when that happens in my opinion

Doesn't happen irl – in the vast majority of cases.

Most SLE women look for an "equal" , and they see that rather in a fellow Beta ST than an IEI; a big reason for this is the gender roles. SLE women tend to feel not as "feminine" generally, so they are going to look for a man who is at least just as "masculine" and strong as them, or more. And that is usually a fellow Beta ST.

Besides that, SLE women are unlikely going to meet an IEI male, because of different lifestyles and the fact IEI men are not as common as other types (in my estimation).

ESTP women aren't common either. And INFP and ESTP are individuals, come from different backgrounds, do not behave the same within their group, and are on different pages of their life that influences how the relationship will continue, heck even Socionics page describes duality in the same way that it works best if they have some things in common/moving towards similar goals

Having said all that, if a female SLE and male IEI actually fall in love and get together, the usual duality dynamic for those two types should ensue, with certain gender roles-related alterations; like the SLE female not being as aggressively pursuing the IEI as the men stereotypically do, and the IEI man not being as clearly submissive (though they might be).

What is with people presuming INFP men as Yes Men or Super Passive and ESTP women as being in charge using her force of will to control people? Those quirks might be true for some, and they may be happening because the other person has zero problem with that through a certain history of trust or understanding. You make ESTP women sound like they're the bosses, they would make superb military leaders or CEOs! if that's the case why don't they start wars or terrorism like men do or handle stockholder takeovers? Why is it that men are the ones who spread violence more than 75%+ of the time than women are?

I've met INFP men of different types with different women. One is a bitchboy to an horrid looking ENTJ woman with no filter, another is a spineless wimp with a ISFP beast hog hungering for the next donut, another is a gay flamer dry humping who likes public exhibiting this behavior to a gay ISFP, another likes to play as a pseudo-drunk weed Caribbean pirate while going for women of similar personality which is a piss boring choice, another is a whiney basement dweller jerking off to furry porn - everyone's different

[bolong]

Doesn't happen irl – in the vast majority of cases.

Most SLE women look for an "equal", and they see that rather in a fellow Beta ST than an IEI; a big reason for this is the gender roles. SLE women tend to feel not as "feminine" generally, so they are going to look for a man who is at least just as "masculine" and strong as them, or more. And that is usually a fellow Beta ST. Besides that, SLE women are unlikely going to meet an IEI male, because of different lifestyles and the fact IEI men are not as common as other types (in my estimation).

Having said all that, if a female SLE and male IEI actually fall in love and get together, the usual duality dynamic for those two types should ensue, with certain gender roles-related alterations; like the SLE female not being as aggressively pursuing the IEI as the men stereotypically do, and the IEI man not being as clearly sexually submissive (though they might be).

SLE women often also end up ESI males..