Because we all want to know
Most likely partner: SX 8w7
Passionate fling: SX 4w3
The wild card: SX cp6w7
Drunken one night stand: SO 7w8 (obviously)
Friend with benefits: SO 5w4
Because we all want to know
Most likely partner: SX 8w7
Passionate fling: SX 4w3
The wild card: SX cp6w7
Drunken one night stand: SO 7w8 (obviously)
Friend with benefits: SO 5w4
Most likely partner: sx/sp 8w9
Sx/so 8w7 for the rest of them lmfao.
I like 7
And I am 9
The decisive thing is not the reality of the object, but the reality of the subjective factor, i.e. the primordial images, which in their totality represent a psychic mirror-world. It is a mirror, however, with the peculiar capacity of representing the present contents of consciousness not in their known and customary form but in a certain sense sub specie aeternitatis, somewhat as a million-year old consciousness might see them.
(Jung on Si)
All.
Maybe I would watch out with sleeping with a male 4 because they can be really sensitive and whiny after. I have one male 4 friend and I imagine him going like (after) "so is that all I was/am to you? just a one-time hook-up?".
And a 5 would probably be the worst with how out of touch with their sensuality they often are. So I find that an odd choice for fwb.
9
The Performer and the Observer... if you do it right, that fits together.
Fives are mine.(*) It's no secret I desire only the introverts of all introverts They are interesting and sexy through and through. And totally expose my bullshit which is really necessary Something I noticed is how removed they are from current social ideals about sexuality. As if culture and life went past them. They're so inside their own shell/world, extraordinarily exciting. They'd rather explain and think about sex than have it, that's so unusual. You'd think that detachment is detrimental but imo sex has so many physical, emotional, societal, psychological implications, it's important to muse about it first so you can be responsible. Obviously a 5 won't act on their understanding since they are caught in it but guess whose e-type is most action-oriented
It's an intimacy challenge to have them slowly discover their lusty 8 side. I think it mobilizes all of my perversions to get past the cerebral wall. To speak in 3's terms: It's a medal if you manage to get a 5 into your bed, and a trophy to discover what is in their head. Secrets and privacy turn me on so you can sign me up. My own sapiosexuality got the best of me Plus we have the competency bonus, there's no way we won't figure out what's best going past errors which I think is really important.
With 5s it's safety first if they wing at 6, I am in deep need of that, even if it's a grim reminder.
I have this weird fantasy of Irene Adler and Sherlock Holmes. Classic 5 -3 dynamic. "The Virgin and the Dominatrix". Agh
(*)Exception: I'll share with @Jailbait who likes the 4-wings
Enneagram: 872 (8w9), 852 (8w7)
( me: 4w3 )
pref: logical introvert *melt*
equal opportunity abstinence
Generally attracted emotionally (and physically) to female 4s. As for sex doesnt matter as long as they're attractive in a way, but I tend to be on the same page with 7s and even 6s I think, and am also attracted to male 8s (but in a non sexual way)
2s can be okay as long as they're healthy but I really don't like that motherly patronizing attitude.
and 3s are too fake and shallow for me, also depends on their maturity tho
1 is probably off limit, 9s too boring, 5 too asexual and often ugly. xd
I'm far from being able to judge other people's enneagram types well, but from what I can see, I'd say
e8 for FWB
e6 for LTR
no e4's or e1's, please.
9w1
3w2
6w5
some ennagram 1w2 are also OK but we need to have the same goals / values (example: YES e1w2 focussed on fitness/sports/intellectual stuff/business, NO 1w2 focussed on cleaning/order/controlling my life)
Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit
Whatever I can get.
The most attractive to me so far are 5w4, 6w5, 7w6, maybe 9w1. I would be unlikely to sleep with a 3 or 2w3 or 4w3. I just don't get the three values.
9 for sure!
・゚*✧ 𝓘 𝓌𝒾𝓁𝓁 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒶𝒸𝒸𝑒𝓅𝓉 𝒶 𝓁𝒾𝒻𝑒 𝓘 𝒹𝑜 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓈𝑒𝓇𝓋𝑒 ✧*:・゚
Most likely partner: any so-blind or sx/so
That's my only type-related requirement tbh. I don't do promiscuity.
This is one of the last things I would consider about a person in this situation, down there with their favorite color really.
Everything happens for a reason.
Generally 9s and 2s attract me cuz of Fe ego. ILI (1w2) can also be cute and vulnerable but a lot less than IEI. Theyre more dry.
Beta ST chicks can also be hot/fun. But the rough and tumble can get outta hand sometimes cuz we both dont like backing down physically
In order most to least:
2, 4, 9, 7, 3, 6, 5, 8, 1
I’m a bit delirious right now, but something tells me an 8 could be a fun, interesting and passionate affair. I imagine there would be a lot of clashing relationship wise though. I know I’ve had good relations with E9, sex was okay. Good relations with an E5 too. Good sex with another E4 (though sometimes I think he’s CP 6), but challenging relationship.
All of them at least once.
8w7 sx/so for all of them. 2s are usually the most masculine looking, least sexually attractive. Some ENFj women look good, but many don't. It's rare to find an ESFj who looks feminine. Same with ESFps, though Jennifer Lawrence looks good, but most ESFps look too masculine. There have actually been studies done that show less agreeable, more assertive, less anxious, and more open-minded women have higher right hand 2d4d ratio, which means they will look more feminine but be less likely to adhere to gender norms. I've never seen an ILE-Ti female, for example, who had a right hand 2d4d ratio that wasn't well above the average, some photos it looks like they do but then in other photos they don't but the photos in which they don't are where all their fingers are stretched out completely. Most IEE women do have low right hand 2d4d ratio, and it's not uncommon in EIE women either and ESE women and they're usually attracted to men with low right hand 2d4d ratio. But I doubt there is an ILE-Ti female with a right hand 2d4d ratio <1, as long as all her digits are intact and completely stretched out and they're usually repulsed by men with low right hand 2d4d ratio and tend to go with and sexually prefer men who have high right hand 2d4d ratio.
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the main question is, which one of them would like to have sex with me lol.
those who knows me will answer it like this : none of them. and I really don't deny it. I accept it, and yell it out. I'm fully Intolerable specially as a partner, but I'm proud of it (they call it narcissist) and I yell it out (they call it.....honest?blunt?arrogant?all of them.)
BTW, this thread is interesting.
it's enough to spend one night with me, your most likely partner will change I promise lol
8w7 sx...........what you chose isn't a popular and interesting guy. people watch romantic movies and it'll motive them to have a savage partner, but they'll regret.
I mean, if you want to do something, don't forget determination and don't regret when you did it. don't be like kids, if u choose, choose decisively and responsibly.
but as they say, kids kids kids.................and f**king independent from their age.
you should consider personality. not types, but personality.
of course, it's true for a dictator like me. flexible people really have no need to determine anything. they just let it go...........I'll need a flexible partner, if I rape her, she'll let it go lol
it'll be very interesting
Hmm ok
Most likely partner: 2
Passionate fling: 8
The wild card: Hmm, don't know what this one means
Drunken one night stand: Probably 7
Friend with benefits: 3 or 8
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I would never determine sexual partner based on enneagram
I'm pretty sure @Karanime is not an enneagram type. Could be wrong.
Hm I’ve always liked 7s the most, 2s are cute and I like Sx/so, Sx/sp and Sp/Sx stackings the best. So a combo of these.
@necrosebud, you said "I need to
1. have a crush on them/
2. emotional attraction/
3. attachment
4. along with romantic
to want to have sex I think. Maybe some level of demisexuality or whatever…yeah regardless of type
now some enneagram types might be more favorable for relationships for me idk but still"
Add in
5. a specific enneatype
And you're getting pretty specific. Obviously, not anyone will do.
My EII secretary divorced her husband and is having a hard time finding the perfect guy for her. She seems to be getting pretty unhappy.
I told her she should just have a fling with some guy, and she said "Oh, no. I could never do that."
I think I see echoes of this in ESI-Fi females.