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[justalitnerdxx]

https://youtu.be/7Z-I3JjrrMI

My first foray into typology. I made a video in 2015, answering some questions that were meant to help typing, and submitted it to a Facebook group. I don't think I ever got a straight answer, so it'd be nice to see if any new insights in a new place become prevalent? anyways if anyone wants to check it out and offer feedback on what IEs I seem to be bringing up the most naturally (sorry for the extensive feedback seeking :/) that would be great, thank you. Or if you wanna laugh at my big hair and baggy hoody outfit then feel free to too

[Bertrand]

this is going to sound weird, but I think you look a lot like a female version of me, especially in the eyes (and hair--I love big hair and I've been growing mine out)

[justalitnerdxx]

@Bertrand oh wow I guess that's pretty eerie that I look like your twin 0_0

[Bertrand]

maybe we have common ancestors most my family is anglo

anyway I see a ton of ethics of relations, you've got a lot of presence and intonation too which is an interesting mix (something EII tends to lack)

when you said something to the effect of "no, I don't wish he didn't have autism, because he wouldn't be who he is" I've often had that same thought; its probably a common enough idea but I think sometimes is lost on people for whatever reason; I do think its a strong intuition though, because I think when people say stuff they're saying in effect "what if everything was the same but without the autism" without realizing that such a thing is somewhat contradictory because everything wouldnt be the same and couldnt be the same without the autism and since its not going away to sit there and wish about some alternate reality kind of takes away from everything good that's right in front of you, for nothing in return really, so its not a compliment or a well-wishing, you know? (even though people think its a harmless thing to wish)

I do think being an Fe type is totally possible and the ethics of relation talk is just incidental because of where you're at in life and the particulars of your situation so of course you talk about them

[justalitnerdxx]

Yeah I'm a fair bit vocally flavoured compared to other Fi leads?

What annoys me more is that my eyeballs bounce everywhere as I think and talk; I look so confused or disingenuous...

[Bertrand]

Yeah I'm a fair bit vocally flavoured compared to other Fi leads?

What annoys me more is that my eyeballs bounce everywhere as I think and talk; I look so confused or disingenuous...

I feel like im all over the place when I talk too, and worry my eyes are crossing or im otherwise looking zany.. but sometimes Ill ask people who im close to if they pick up on that and they say they cant tell so I think its just an internal insecurity, like I really liked your mannerisms they seemed really genuine and real... I felt like you were really charming actually

[justalitnerdxx]

I know a lot of children and adults with special needs and I do feel troubled and upset by some of their mental limitations and physical problems, but, all of their personalities have each a shining star inside. Their brain is wired differently and that's ok because they offer a new perspective and are on their own journey. Actually I like to think they're of a purer form; like children and animals in that they are not burdened by some of the toxic human feelings and states like jealousy, deception for own gain...I don't know, it is hard to explain, though I never have wished for my brother to be different I do know some parents of children my brother went to school with who openly admit shame about their child, wanting them to be normal so they can be happy. It's so misguided :/ I'm a bit rare to say I am happy to have a brother with autism @Bertrand

[AbZero]

Everything seems to match up with EII. There is some potential for bias since you say at the end you believe you are EII but I don't really see any other type. Fi>Fe,Si>Se puts you in Delta. intuitive and ethical, introverted. Probably rational, so EII based on this video.

[Aylen]

You guys can get a % of similarity with this.

https://www.twinsornot.net/

[Chae]

EII-Ne.


Here are the element channels for you:


Fi base - wanting people to get along well, interpersonal prowess, reconciling, humanitarian mindset, keeping relations as they are, like and dislike, personality judgments
Fe ignoring - not getting along with a "drama queen", subdued emotionalism/romanticism although awareness it there, not "out there"
Ne creative - ideas and imagination, freedom, utopia, ideals, and hidden meanings, strong grasp of interests and talents, curiosity
Ni demonstrative - strong ability of prediction, sequence of time interest: history, forecasts, story plots, fate, danger avoidance to cover up weak volition
Si hidden agenda - well-being and no-stress environments are favored and requested, relaxation > mobilization/coming on too strong/pressure
Se vulnerable - Pushiness, assertion, go-getting, and aggression are rejected, problematic area (see around 25 min). Power is constantly argued against, area of fear.
Ti role - hierarchy is spotted but the idea is pushed away strongly: "don't like this attitude"
Te suggestive - Insecurity in terms of knowledge & "how-to" but still open to it, business-inclined, looking for someone with "an air of responsibility", fact resource work


Also, Ij temperament, introversion with consistency in your disposition.

Hope it helps! You look cozy.

[Aylen]

EII-Ne.


Here are the element channels for you:


Fi base - wanting people to get along well, interpersonal prowess, reconciling, humanitarian mindset, keeping relations as they are, like and dislike, personality judgments
Fe ignoring - not getting along with a "drama queen", subdued emotionalism/romanticism although awareness it there, not "out there"
Ne creative - ideas and imagination, freedom, utopia, ideals, and hidden meanings, strong grasp of interests and talents, curiosity
Ni demonstrative - strong ability of prediction, sequence of time interest: history, forecasts, story plots, fate, danger avoidance to cover up weak volition
Si hidden agenda - well-being and no-stress environments are favored and requested, relaxation > mobilization/coming on too strong/pressure
Se vulnerable - Pushiness, assertion, go-getting, and aggression are rejected, problematic area (see around 25 min). Power is constantly argued against, area of fear.
Ti role - hierarchy is spotted but the idea is pushed away strongly: "don't like this attitude"
Te suggestive - Insecurity in terms of knowledge & "how-to" but still open to it, business-inclined, looking for someone with "an air of responsibility", fact resource work


Also, Ij temperament, introversion with consistency in your disposition.

Hope it helps! You look cozy.

I am 25 minutes in and was already thinking she is a great example of EII-Ne. Something very similar to my EII-Ne sister in conscientiousness and overall gentle vibe. Also reminds me a bit of @Vespertine's vibe.

[Tallmo]

Also reminds me a bit of @Vespertine's vibe.

Is there a video somewhere?

[Shytan]

EII-Ne.


Here are the element channels for you:


Fi base - wanting people to get along well, interpersonal prowess, reconciling, humanitarian mindset, keeping relations as they are, like and dislike, personality judgments
Fe ignoring - not getting along with a "drama queen", subdued emotionalism/romanticism although awareness it there, not "out there"
Ne creative - ideas and imagination, freedom, utopia, ideals, and hidden meanings, strong grasp of interests and talents, curiosity
Ni demonstrative - strong ability of prediction, sequence of time interest: history, forecasts, story plots, fate, danger avoidance to cover up weak volition
Si hidden agenda - well-being and no-stress environments are favored and requested, relaxation > mobilization/coming on too strong/pressure
Se vulnerable - Pushiness, assertion, go-getting, and aggression are rejected, problematic area (see around 25 min). Power is constantly argued against, area of fear.
Ti role - hierarchy is spotted but the idea is pushed away strongly: "don't like this attitude"
Te suggestive - Insecurity in terms of knowledge & "how-to" but still open to it, business-inclined, looking for someone with "an air of responsibility", fact resource work


Also, Ij temperament, introversion with consistency in your disposition.

Hope it helps! You look cozy.

Could you help me out with EII-Fi ?

[Chae]

Could you help me out with EII-Fi ?

Hey of course! What typing material can I use? PM me if you like.

[justalitnerdxx]

EII-Ne.


Here are the element channels for you:


Fi base - wanting people to get along well, interpersonal prowess, reconciling, humanitarian mindset, keeping relations as they are, like and dislike, personality judgments
Fe ignoring - not getting along with a "drama queen", subdued emotionalism/romanticism although awareness it there, not "out there"
Ne creative - ideas and imagination, freedom, utopia, ideals, and hidden meanings, strong grasp of interests and talents, curiosity
Ni demonstrative - strong ability of prediction, sequence of time interest: history, forecasts, story plots, fate, danger avoidance to cover up weak volition
Si hidden agenda - well-being and no-stress environments are favored and requested, relaxation > mobilization/coming on too strong/pressure
Se vulnerable - Pushiness, assertion, go-getting, and aggression are rejected, problematic area (see around 25 min). Power is constantly argued against, area of fear.
Ti role - hierarchy is spotted but the idea is pushed away strongly: "don't like this attitude"
Te suggestive - Insecurity in terms of knowledge & "how-to" but still open to it, business-inclined, looking for someone with "an air of responsibility", fact resource work


Also, Ij temperament, introversion with consistency in your disposition.

Hope it helps! You look cozy.

thank you! you've made it easier to understand, and I'm flattered anyone has even watched like a minute of it.

Olus it is a very big cuddly hoody: I sleep in it in Winter xD

[wacey]

Hey flutteringshyxx, After watching your video, I could say you are probably EII. You do remind me of ESE roomate however. That could just be in looks. I think that you could rule out IEI for sure. Wish you well on your journey.

[justalitnerdxx]

Hey flutteringshyxx, After watching your video, I could say you are probably EII. You do remind me of ESE roomate however. That could just be in looks. I think that you could rule out IEI for sure. Wish you well on your journey.

Thank you; I'm sure someone else has commented that I VI kinda ESE-y. Which I don't mind, they're lovely

[wacey]

Thank you; I'm sure someone else has commented that I VI kinda ESE-y. Which I don't mind, they're lovely

That was me.

[justalitnerdxx]

That was me.

Oh sorry, I had forgot it was you :0

[Aylen]

Thank you; I'm sure someone else has commented that I VI kinda ESE-y. Which I don't mind, they're lovely

I would say you VI more like my ESE sister than my EII sister but I do not go by VI. The vibe is not the same. I can send you her pic in pm so you can see what I mean.

[justalitnerdxx]

I would say you VI more like my ESE sister than my EII sister but I do not go by VI. The vibe is not the same. I can send you her pic in pm so you can see what I mean.

Yeah I think physically people of all different types can have the same appearance I.e. Facial structure, body type, very similar demanors, but vibe/energy and ways of orientating to some extent are more telling of how someone's mind orients

[Aylen]

Yeah I think physically people of all different types can have the same appearance I.e. Facial structure, body type, very similar demanors, but vibe/energy and ways of orientating to some extent are more telling of how someone's mind orients

Yes, exactly, as you can see you are not a twin to my ESE sister but the overall facial structure is closer to hers than to my EII sister who looks more like our ethnicity. We have a different father than she does. She does not look much like our LSI mom either. She looks more like her dad who was her conflictor. In my family, I look similar to both sisters but they do not resemble each other as much. I look like our mom the most out of all my siblings on my mom's side. My EII sister looks like our EIE bio-dad and his other kids.

To make it more confusing is that we all kind of copy each other's mannerisms too and will say things similar to each other. My brother is the best at family mimicking. I loved how my EII sister curled her lip when she half smiled so I practiced copying it when I was a teen. lol I don't use it anymore. It was too much work and she wouldn't stop doing it. We do each vibe differently. My brother and I have a very similar way orientating ourselves to a situation. The Se polr in the EII is real.

@Tallmo not sure if it was deleted or not.

[Tallmo]

I also think you should rule out IEI now. I cant see anything of that type in you

[justalitnerdxx]

I also think you should rule out IEI now. I cant see anything of that type in you

And....ruled out

[justalitnerdxx]

I'm looking back on this and over-thinking...am I too expressive to be an EII? Ha this is the only criticism I can see of that typing xO @Chae @wacey @Bertrand @Aylen

[The Reality Denialist]

EII. I listened how you like to make characters in your head or something like that. I'm pretty sure of your EII type.

That points towards (when you put in right context) very strong but valued . Lots of LIIs can be like that as well.

[justalitnerdxx]

@unsuccessfullalphamale thank you for your input! Hmmm I am pretty sure I'm not LII anyways lol ��

[maniac]

9w1!!!!! so/sx or sp/so, 927, 926?

[justalitnerdxx]

That is why I did think IEI cause...well process of elimination; too good at Ni/Ne, not confident with Si and definitely not with Se, some sort of NF that seems expressive, not 'still' enough to be seen as EII/Ij. Though I think I do value Si/Ne over Ni/Se now. With Se I do sometimes worry that when I'm snappy or question people that it seems aggressive, like I'm picking a fight, and I'd kinda hate to be drawn into a confrontation since I doubt I can defend myself. That said my EIE work mate calls me 'dramatic' cause when mistakes are made by myself or others I tend to go on a long winded 'please people have decorum!!!' rant' she calls it, where I say what should and shouldn't be done and how it has negatives effects.

[justalitnerdxx]

https://youtu.be/ViVpFsFpMdY

this video is a formal inteRview I did one time about socionics with World Socionics Society. This is such an unflattering angle and I apologise in advance. Thought sharing here cause it maybe has more information relevant.

[justalitnerdxx]

I wish I could be more certain :3 I don't trust my own judgement and worry that I'm wrong (as if it should matter what my type would be in a sociological theory! If I'm wrong it's no biggie...yet to my silly obsessive head it is a big deal and I don't want to have misjudged myself and even the people around me as being what they are NOT)

[Sol]

FlutteringShyxx, you may try my IR test
especially as you think yourself EII. my dual

[justalitnerdxx]

FlutteringShyxx, you may try my IR test
especially as you think yourself EII. my dual

Ok I did see the link yesterday but I'll look more into it

sorry everyone for being a pest :/

[justalitnerdxx]

also just to say it's a really good resource you've shared so thank you on behalf of the group

[Sol]

Ok I did see the link yesterday but I'll look more into it

the testing takes about 7 hours. may be done through several of days. there is description of the process
it should help to distinguish at least very different types version, as SEI and EII. to show which is more possible by IR, where there is lesser of influence of Self-image formed earlier about own type

[justalitnerdxx]

Oh I've already started looking at the numbered groups...is that wrong?

[Sol]

Oh I've already started looking at the numbered groups...is that wrong?

No. Just don't look the key befor the sorting ends.

[Tallmo]

I have now changed my mind and I think you are IEI.

Sorry for ruling this out earlier.

[justalitnerdxx]

The mystery continues :3

seriously though it's ok, like you said, you can only really know via experience of intertype relationships and time

[justalitnerdxx]

I have now changed my mind and I think you are IEI.

Sorry for ruling this out earlier.

Its ok, don't apologise. Though I am curious as to what's changed your mind, if you don't mind sharing?