So, How to date a dual and do I have one or is duality a myth?

[Ocean Man]

I don't think duality is this dramatic thing that could explode or be the holy grail like you say

It's been stated over and over by multiple practitioners. You could even go to http://socionics.com which is ancient and read about it there, the description hasn't changed much in the past 20 years.

If you wanna go and take personal shots at me go ahead this means nothing to me

"Never argue with an idiot. They will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience." - EIE wisdom from Mark Twain. I'll be taking his advice in this situation.