So, How to date a dual and do I have one or is duality a myth?

[ILoveChinchillas]

A kind sentiment, however, bad advice. Since people are in love with the idea of duality... The secret is that Duals are attracted by the Activating function as it mobilizes their psyche (sort of like a mating signal), i.e. SEE being attracted to LIE's ability to generate profits, and ILI being attracted to ESI's moral integrity.

It's not meant to be kind. It just is what it is. Play to your strengths. Do what you value. Don't force anything. Your dual will gravitate towards you.

[Ocean Man]

It's not meant to be kind. It just is what it is. Play to your strengths. Do what you value. Don't force anything. Your dual will gravitate towards you.

It's meant to be idealistic then. You should know that you are more likely to attract a Supervisor that way.

[ILoveChinchillas]

It's meant to be idealistic then. You should know that you are more likely to attract a Supervisor that way.

Explain.

[Ocean Man]

Explain.

I think I'll let you figure it out, it will be interesting then. I am glad I posted here today as I am reminded that conceptions without experience are void.

[ILoveChinchillas]

I think I'll let you figure it out, it will be interesting then. I am glad I posted here today as I am reminded that conceptions without experience are void.

I understand what you mean when you say conceptions about experience are void. This subject matter is treading on experiential ground, and it also treads on subconscious ground, which is even harder to communicate IMO.

I mean, the way I see it, when someone is "natural", they subconsciously queue their dual to cover for their blind-spots, as duality is a subconscious need. For example, I once had an SEE coworker who took care of practical tasks for me after I was clearly letting go of any forced conviction about taking care of the practical tasks myself. It was pretty easy - granted, we weren't dating and I was actually helping her out in her own relationship by covering her shifts.