So, How to date a dual and do I have one or is duality a myth?

[Bethanyclaire]

Thinking out loud: Also, things like lack of subtype/ strong subtype as well as one’s mental health levels at the time the relationship is gonna impact how strong the relationship feels.

So for example I really liked an SEI who turned me down. We have crazy natural chemistry for whatever reason and although I’m a bit subtype-y I’m not sure he is. I think this makes our ‘friendship’ or whatever’s left of it feel similar to semi-duality rather than typical look-a-like. When we first met I was a lot more unhealthy and he was more confident so I don’t think the natural chemistry was so obvious. It’s almost like he is EP to my IP because he’s a bit more of an ambivert?

Knowing him well it’s not like I’d choose him over a good semi-dual, but if another SEI as good as him came along I might go for it?