Originally Posted by
HotSauce
Umm. Yes, unfortunately my anger rises up in a split second. It usually stems from people not doing what I've asked them to do, or if they are doing something that doesn't make any sense to the present situation and conflicts with what needs to get done, NOW.
Basically...if you are interfering with my Se, undermining my Se, or fucking with my vision of how this needs to go...I will be mad. It only last a moment though, and I go back to being happy go lucky after I've yelled or put you in your place. I love my ILI husband because he is mentally strong and intellectual and can hold his own in any debate, but at the same time, open to my instructions and suggestions.
A good example of this...last week we had a fuel "shortage" in my part of the country because of the hurricane. I wasn't about to be caught without a tank of gas, you never know how long these things will last, so I decided to leave the office at 10am in search of gasoline. It took 2 hours to fuel up. I texted my ILI, who of course hadn't heard a thing about fuel being short. He thanked me and went on his own search for gas.
I come back to the office, tried to warn my LSI boss. "Hey, have you heard about the fuel shortage?"
Boss: Oh, that's only out in the suburbs
me: No, it's here in the city too. I had to go to 7 stations around here to find gas, then I had to wait in line 45 minutes. The roads are flooded so fuel trucks are having a hard time delivering to the stations"
Boss: What about 7-11?
Me: No gas there
Boss: QuickTrip?
Me: No gas there either.
Boss: Nah, there's gas. You've just gotta go to the right stations.
I just left at that point, if he wants to be caught on E on the freeway it's his problem. I was mad about it! I'm trying to HELP YOU, IDIOT. lol. I wanted to kick him.
I have also found that Ne style silliness when I am trying to Se the hell out of something will get you yelled at VERY QUICK. I have a child who is either ENTp or ENFp, and I'll be instructing her on how to do something effectively, right now. Whatever I am telling her to do is important to a goal I am trying to reach (Your cousins are coming over, clean up your room, etc). She will go into silly Ne mode and want to show me something random on her phone or she will start analyzing possibilities that don't need to be analyzed at the time. It pisses me off to no end...lol. But the good thing is she knows her mom is crazy and I haven't traumatized the poor child. I have told her many times to not take it personally, mom is just nuts.