EII-LSE Duality Relations (INFj-ESTj)

[DirectorAbbie]

I don't know about other LSE women, but I certainly couldn't see myself with an LSI. SLI perhaps, but not LSI. There's not that much in common.

But from what I've seen, there are more male EIIs than female LSEs. So if LSE women aren't marrying the EII men, what are the EII men doing?

Well, I know one who was interested in me ended up with a likely-IEI for a while. And a likely-EII married an LII. And an EII I know is with an SEI girl. And I know of a likely-EII who's with a likely-SEE. Then some are old and single.

Hm. I wonder whether it has something to do with EII men wanting to go fast and LSE women wanting to go slow.

[Adam Strange]

I don't know about other LSE women, but I certainly couldn't see myself with an LSI. SLI perhaps, but not LSI. There's not that much in common.

But from what I've seen, there are more male EIIs than female LSEs. So if LSE women aren't marrying the EII men, what are the EII men doing?

Well, I know one who was interested in me ended up with a likely-IEI for a while. And a likely-EII married an LII. And an EII I know is with an SEI girl. And I know of a likely-EII who's with a likely-SEE. Then some are old and single.

Hm. I wonder whether it has something to do with EII men wanting to go fast and LSE women wanting to go slow.

@Director Abbie, don't marry an SLI, either. My LSE mother did, and while they are still married, my SLI father said the sex stopped after six or seven years. Plus, they have nothing to say to each other. It's a miracle that they stuck with each other. But it's not a particularly good miracle.

Remember, "Duality or GTFO".

Also, my LSE sister married a male IEI. I guess that, since she has a more "male" personality, she was looking for a guy who was a bit softer. Their marriage is a disaster. I'm not sure they even like each other. They also are still married, but not because the IEI is faithful. It's because my sister pours a LOT of money into the relationship. (I wish she could meet an EII.) If she stopped supporting him and buying him toys, he'd be out of there like a bullet leaves a gun.

[Minde]

[...] and LSE women wanting to go slow.

Why do you want to go slow? And is this something you envision could ever change or adjust? I'm not questioning the validity of that desire, just curious about your reasoning and how your brain and motivations work.

[DirectorAbbie]

Why do you want to go slow? And is this something you envision could ever change or adjust? I'm not questioning the validity of that desire, just curious about your reasoning and how your brain and motivations work.

I think I read somewhere that NFs liked to move fast and STs liked to move slow.
But I've also gotten the impression that men generally move faster than women.
If both are true, the male NF would move a lot faster than the female ST.

Personally, I think I would be a poor example in this area for NTR reasons, so other examples would be welcome to either support or refute the theory.

[Minde]

I think I read somewhere that NFs liked to move fast and STs liked to move slow.
But I've also gotten the impression that men generally move faster than women.
If both are true, the male NF would move a lot faster than the female ST.

Personally, I think I would be a poor example in this area for NTR reasons, so other examples would be welcome to either support or refute the theory.

Oh, the theory is fine, and we can explore that, sure. At the moment I am more curious about you personally, including NTR things. If that's too private for this public forum then that's ok.