The way you went through all of the information and dissected it as you did is rather typical of a Logical type, @
Number 9 large.
Usually, being plagued with doubts and wanting to find security (
valuing types usually seek it out in some kind of system) is a Type 6 problem and not related to any particular IE. Apparently some people associate that with
, but that is not what
is truly about.
is about time and an abstract perception of the world; think of how Plato saw objects containing "ideas" – this is very
.
A lot of people in this world are doubtful or indecisive, and they are all supposed to be
lead? Not really. A lot of people are 6s. I know that for a newbie or even advanced people, there can be the difficulty to discern Sociotype from Enneagram type, but the differences have to be considered.
Another Enneagram motivation vs IE issue. No, as far as I understand it, this is not Fi HA in particular; this is simply being either SX first or second.
A good rule of thumb to distinguish whether something is IE related or Enneagram related: Could other (potentially very different) sociotypes go through the same thing or feel the same way about something? In this case, again, plenty of non-Ni lead or non-Fi HA people always have someone they are obsessed or infatuated with. And those people are usually SX first, sometimes second. And there are SX blindspot ILIs (and other types) who don't feel that way much at all.
But I get it, the problem with the HAs is the fact there is not enough information about them out there, and the information that is there is very vague and too open to interpretation for some people. I see
HA as being related to wanting to develop your
, and finding ways to express yours better. This can go by wanting to "love" (or despise, for that matter) certain things in this world; but it is not necessarily as closely related to romance itself as it sounds like.
W
ho likes rejection? I don't know anyone who does.
(Except for some women who have a thing for jerks, maybe.)
Well, what I meant by that is that I wouldn't even risk success with a women, because of my fear and dread of rejection. I know everybody hates rejection
Yes, you do not value it, but having very strong
as an LSI, you'd be able to relate to some of the Si (lead) description aspects. The way you critique the
lead descriptions sounds pretty much like
Demonstrative to me, from a
valuing perspective.
And you do relate to
, otherwise you wouldn't have bolded entire sections of it.
Anyhow, I still see an LSI Type 6 finding difficulties with fully embracing the theory because of general doubts, and maybe a lack of clear information in some parts. And it is not helping that you like SEEs (assuming they are typed correctly) so much.
It makes you believe that they must be your Duals. SX problems.