Quote Originally Posted by Rebelondeck View Post
ESEs are happiest when they feel that they're the best, and they feel most content when in control or in a controlled situation; this can have many interpretations. If pleasing someone were the goal, then they're happiest when complemented that their efforts were the best - better than those of others. They like things happening as they would anticipate; if they have any apprehension about outcomes, they would feel happiest when in total control and barking out orders. Most love feeling needed or being the linchpin in activities. They can find happiness in empathy but not all have the well-being of others as a primary objective.

a.k.a. I/O
You must be ILI because I was getting a lot of good feelz from this thread, falling in love with ESE, until the post you wrote came along.