They are so caring and genuinely like to make others comfortable and ask nothing in return.
I don't want to be a freeloader. So what can I do to repay their efforts?
What kind of gifts do they like and what would they find obtrusive?
Where do they need help?
An ESE friend of mine appreciates books about cognitive science but that's about the only thing I can provide and from my perspective that is nearly nothing.
Help me @sorrowsofyoungwerther