@Slugabed Yeah that makes perfect sense. It just seems sort of funny that ultimately you still have to hold yourself back and change how you do things for your dual partner. You have to censor how you do things in any relationship I guess. sigh. >.<

Mmmm yes ultimately just stay concrete with sensors. I'm sorry you feel as though NFs aren't listening to you properly, though. I think they are more interested in what you have to say than you think. I think it's just the difference in what you expect as a response.
I am just naturally vague but I definitely can be concrete if I have to be.