Quote Originally Posted by Director Abbie View Post
I Fi-seek by vaguely mentioning something personal and secretly hoping they latch onto that and dig a little deeper. I like it when they give suggestions as to why I may think in a certain way, but not if they act like what they say on the matter is definite. I like carefully-crafted questions that make me realize things.

From my non-recent experience with SEEs: they're good at latching onto clues and digging deeper, probably better than EIIs are. But they're prone to making irrelevant comments that sidetrack rather than edify.
This is eye opening, thanks. I'm surprised when Te-leading types do this and I don't know how to react, because they seem so private most of the time and then suddenly drop very personal thoughts.

I want to be empathic and kind but I fear it's not the right kind of empathy they need since I have Fe. I don't want them to retreat back into their shell...