The element of love!

When the person is walking around people, communicating and exchange information or even processing the world around them they fail to metabolize elements with weak dimension. At least that is how I view suggestive! Lets go with weak Se, the person who value the element fail to pick up the pieces and metabolize it. Most of the information go past the person. So when dualizing the dual kind of enlighten the person of all this information, already metabolized by someone who also value it. But how is this different from the PoLR? Why is PoLR like "hitting you in the face" while suggestive is slipping by your consciousness?