the teacher comes when the student is ready and they may not even look or feel teacher-ish. a gift of being newly introduced to socionics might be this incentive to go out ..just in case you meet a dual. however I think a greater gift is some understanding that you might not click with certain people for reasons other than either party being at fault/not good enough, which can make someone be socially avoidant in the first place (and often masquerade it as #notgivingashit). just taking wild guesses here, because the rabbit hole can go deep - as seen in numerous cases @all @round d w0rld