HELP ME I created a monster.
That's a... cunning hairstyle... lmao
In my pic I only included heterosexual guys, because that's what I would end up with...
In some other pics I included gay guys I've found attractive, though.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
My sister is like the guys I'm attracted to. First of all, she's a Taurus. Pretty much all the guys I've ever been in love with were Tauruses except one Pisces. She's the person who seems like they like you, and she knows what she is doing. You do things for her and make sacrifices in hopes she will give something back, but then she ditches constantly for someone better. And you realize she never does anything for you. A user.
not imago, just fun
Positive influence: Kind, moral, big thinking, live and let live, accepting, warm
Negative influence: Scattered, disorganized, chaotic, goalless, aimless, image conscious, distant, uninvolved, messy, manipulative, too emotional, arbitrary
What I wanted most as a child and didn't get was…: Love, acceptance, stability, safety
As a child, I had these negative feelings over and over again: Fear, sadness, anxiety
I had really bad influences as a child...
Hey, yours is similar to mine... although they were not drug-addicted or anything.
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Positive - Responsible, attentive, high expectations
Negative - Restrictive, unwilling to listen, counterproductive
What I wanted most as a child and didn't get was a sense of competence.
As a child, I had these negative feelings over and over again: impotence, fear, envy, ressentiment
ILI-Ni 5w4 sp/sx 548 RLUEI
Actually, why not ExTx instead of ExFx? I had both Te and Fe traits listed for my Imago. For the bolded ones, 2:2 Te:Fe and 1 Ej. For the nonbolded ones: 1 for Te, the rest not specific either to Te or Fe.
Thoughts?
(My Imago post was the following in spoilers)
The only one thing I'd edit in that: "fun" as more like "enthusiastic", but yeah, somewhat fun.
Positive: accepting, supportive, successful, loving, cool-headed, open, reliable, laid-back, efficient, intelligent, insightful, moral
Negative: busy, dismissive, self-absorbed, egoistical, harsh, judgmental, self-righteous, distant
What I wanted most as a child and didn't get was: Support in everyday matters, a filled lunchbox (I am serious, that always really bothered me ! 1st world problems, I know), more guests/people at home
As a child, I had these negative feelings over and over again: anger, frustration
And since you gave me that morph thingy to play with:
Couldn’t decide which one I liked better, but I'd certainly take both
(I was tempted to include Gollum...)
Positive
Organized, outgoing, family centered, a lot of delicious food all the time, involved in practical trades, free to be emotionally expressive, providers, caring, always there when you need them
Negative
Worry warts, messy, too much socialization
Wanted most as a child was for my family to be better off financially
Negative feelings that I had were someone possibly getting seriously sick from my dads excessive smoking
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I meant to do this a while ago, but just got around to it now.
Positive Traits: Unconditional love, reliable, predictable, steady, intelligent, outgoing, friendly, rational, supportive, reasonable, admiring
Negative Traits: Angry, mocking, violent, controlling, critical, absent, stubborn, unimaginative
What I wanted most as a child and didn’t get was unconditional love. Instead, I got conditional permission to live in my parent’s house in exchange for absolute obedience and high performance in school.
My parents were incredibly cheap. I got new clothes for school once a year from a discount store, and one year I told my mother that the shoes she bought me hurt my feet. She said I’d get used to them. After walking to and from school, my feet were bleeding, and to my great surprise, she decided to get me a new pair. Strangely enough, I never felt poor, I just felt that I was asking for too much. My mother told us we were well-off because we had a doormat at the front door with the initial of our last name on it.
As a child, I had these negative feelings over and over again, the feeling that my parents didn’t love me. I tried to be good and obedient, but they never really loved me. I sometimes thought that if I killed myself, they might regret the way they treated me, but then I’d think, No, they wouldn’t. My father was never home to protect us against a violent mother, and our mother valued my sisters and me about as much as she valued her furniture. Maybe less.
Aside from that, my life was pretty good. I was happy with my accomplishments, and we got enough to eat.
And now for the fun part, where we examine my composite Imago's face:
Babe - composite.jpeg
If any of you look like this, we need to talk.
Seriously, the composite face came out better than any of the individual faces, and I have to say, if I saw this woman in person, I might not approach her until I knew something about her, and for me, that's a first.
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Positive: Caring, conscientious, loyal, loving
Negative: Controlling, out of touch with reality, sheltering, naive
My dad was absent most of the time and my existing family is pretty small so my mother and brother where the only people I was around 90% of the time. My mom was pretty good when it came to caring about me and providing me with the essentials. My main problem with her was I had wished she tried to expose me more to realities of the world and teach me some stuff that was actually practical rather then shelter me with her Jehova's Witness BS and constant preaching about morals. I never got to do anything with anyone my age and instead was stuck going to JW meetings with old and sickly people. Now I'm stuck trying to rid myself of excess inhibition and self-restraint just so I can actually feel comfortable being at places other then home and not be alienated from people my same age.
Morph results, VI is welcomed (did it twice):
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I have come across a super easy exercise that does not even require you to think about your past in order to unearth the Imago.
Someone asked this on Facebook. My answer was:"What do you find outrageously sexy in the opposite sex? Talk about the sexiest, most magnetic person you've ever met?"
"Charming, confident, sociable, tongue-in-cheek, good-looking, passionate, kind, ambitious, sexual, talkative, curious, adventurous, active ... "
As I was writing this, I realized I was describing the positive traits of my Imago.
Ummm...
In brief one could call me abstract and inventive: a professional psychologist told me that child should you their senses. I was thinking stuff like: Is this real, infinite loops reality simulation (not in those words but..) what constitutes this concept as this. Already I was doing deconstructions of borders between good and evil. Had some control of my money because I didn't really want stuff. Not because I needed it for something forthcoming. Then found out about books and spend some money on those things. I had material on my hands as I had access on construction waste. Did something cool with it whenever I wanted. I was very caring about my siblings. I said weird stuff and I was bit funny with it.Code:there's both positive and negative in each possible value aspects: logic error... infinite loop... reboot... ESI reads print out... hospital visit...
When heard about religion I was cool with it as a model for explanation until. Made my own systems and created parody hymns. It just seemed so natural. Then heard that it didn't apply to all and there were chosen ones. It really pissed me off and I didn't accept it as an explanation model anymore.
Places of stress: bad sensory experiences really threw me off the handle. Lack of willpower to do routine stuff. I didn't find usual kids play interesting. People still tell stories and laugh about my fantasy filled rages. Didn't bond without other's assistance.
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MOTTO: NEVER TRUST IN REALITY
Winning is for losers
Sincerely yours,
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Life is a joke but do you have a life?
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My biggest Imago crush from years ago basically looked like (a slightly older version of) this guy.
Positive: patient, artisanal skills, calm, caring, accepting, encouraging, protecting, honorable, hardworking, playful, practical, undemanding
Negative: angry, disloyal, unpredictable, opportunistic, humiliating, cold, prejudiced, moody, weak-willed, prideful, reckless
What I wanted most as a child and didn't get was a save place where I can express my feelings without judgment
As a child I had these negative feelings over and over again: embarrassment, sadness, resentment, fear
If this list is my imago I hope that I'll never meet him/her
nice exercise @Cassandra
Thanks @Cassandra this was a great idea
Positive: Encouraging, caring, funny, creative, expressive, hardworking
Negative: Unfair, intolerant, emotionally unpredictable, unstable, self-centered, cold, financially unstable, thoughtless
What I wanted most as a child and didn't get was: To be truly listened to, to feel like I was valued for who I am, to be told the truth and for information not to be secretive
As a child I had these negative feelings over and over again: Fear, shame, guilt, neglect
"Not everything that is faced can be changed; but nothing can be changed until it is faced" -James Baldwin
I'm not talking about positive emotions
But crying, anger and defiance. I was very sensitive as a child and cried often. My mother had patience with me but not my father. Crying and any expressions of disobedience were forbidden. I can't really blame him (He grew up with an abusive father)
Not expressing any feelings, especially not that I'm hurt, was the optimal solution for peace.
I was convinced when I'm so silent and hidden that I'm practically invisible everything will be ok
It's better these days
I did your PDF exercise too, @Cassandra . It was great. Thank you!!
The first set of results are the composite traits of past romantic partners, from the PDF exercise you linked. The second set are based on the childhood influences one from the OP.