Negative: Distant. Paranoid. Lazy. Abusive towards kids not deserving it. Too busy/neglectful.
Positive: Warm. Fun/attentive. Optimistic. Energetic. Reliable. Knowledgeable with facts. Insightful.
What I wanted most as a child and didn’t get was - Attention. Control.
As a child, I had these negative feelings over and over again - Coping alone.