Quote Originally Posted by Adam Strange View Post
@vesstheastralsilky, as a Caregiver SEI, you aren't sexually compatible with your Mirage partner, the Aggressor SLE. As a Victim LIE, I'm very sexually compatible with my Mirage partner, the Aggressor LSI. Getting close to them is like falling into bed. It is scary easy.
To better understand my perspective, you might consider how you feel about your Semi-Dual, the Infantile IEE.

Personally, my understanding of Socionics is not good enough to understand why a person is a Mirage vs a Semi-dual. I think of Mirage as a "Private Semi-dual", and a Semi-dual as a "Public Semi-dual". But that's just me. I'm sure there are better reasons for the designations than how I feel about a person.



I've seen them and I agree with most of them.

I actually see a lot of ESI's every week. Some of them find me attractive, some of them pointedly ignore me. I'm slowly moving toward a solution on this.

At lunch on Friday, the SEE didn't make it to work, so I was alone and forlorn so I had to sit at a table next to this active and attractive female who looked ESI to me. Her voice cadences seemed ESI, her dress seemed ESI, and she had this physicality and beauty to her that seemed ESI. However, she was talking animatedly to her companions (a female LSI and a male ??EIE??ILE?? - I couldn't make him out) and her phone had a bright red cover (Si - ESI's tend to prefer pastels). As I studied her face, it became clearer to me that she was more likely SEI. So I'm getting better at this VI business, slowly.



Thanks, vess. I appreciate the offer. But I'm pretty sure that you are SEI and I am LIE and, while I can (and do!) admire your intelligence and your Si and Fe, I'm not really able to jump ship. I'm stuck with being LIE and having ESI's for duals. Lol.

I am keeping an eye out for prospective ILE's for you. Unfortunately, the best prospect so far is married, the second best prospect is 39 and says he doesn't date older women (the fool!) and the third prospect is an economic basket case with misogyny issues. However, I'm still looking. If I find one, I'll let you know.
Thank you for the thought but I am already engaged to my fiance overseas.