That's also you being like this.
Or do you think an ESI would tolerate this kind of controlling behavior from you...? She'd probably just change jobs to get away or indirectly force you to do the job.
My 2c regarding the topic: SLIs to me seem to live a good life in a fairly effortless way, they easily adapt to their current external circumstances, whereas I'm often pushing for more sometimes even not that realistically. I think SLIs "supervise" me more on the realism (Te) aspect, rather than Si, idk, what should they say, u dress badly? I mean they have IEEs and ILEs as duals and semi duals.